FAQs

For Saturday, formal-ish. What does it mean? If you’re dressing masc, a suit is great! If you go for pants and a jacket, try to make it more Paul Newman than Bernie Sanders. If you’re dressing femme, a long dress, a fun jumpsuit, snazzy slacks and a bold top— whatever makes you feel fabulous. Becca put together a mood board that is not very helpful, but she said it was super fun to make!

For Friday, comfortable cocktail. What does that mean? Something nice and fun, like what you’d wear to a chic dinner party! Yes, guys, we know it’s Vermont—your best flannel is totally fine.

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What’s the dress code?

The ceremony will be on grass, so we can’t recommend stilettos. Other than that, wear whatever makes you happy!

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What shoes should I wear?

Kids are welcome at Haymaker on Friday and at brunch on Sunday, but we’re keeping the ceremony and reception adults only. If you plan on bringing your little ones and want to find a babysitter for Saturday, just let us know— we’d be happy to help!

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Are kids invited?

We will have busses picking people up at designated locations before the ceremony and dropping them off after the reception. Busses will leave Tourterelle at 10 pm, 11:30 pm, and 1 am. For more info on routes, click here!

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You mentioned transportation. How can I get a ride to and from the ceremony and reception?

Our brilliant friend Courtney Allen did the illustration and our other brilliant friend Ryan Oenning designed the stamp! Aren’t they talented??

5

Who designed your save the dates?

Something came up, and a member of my party can no longer come. How can I update my RSVP?

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We’re very sorry to hear that! Please just email Becca as soon as practicable.

My question isn’t here! What should I do?

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Ask Charlie or Becca (or, to be safe, both of us)! We’re happy to answer any questions you have about our wedding weekend. Beyond that, Charlie can give advice on knife sharpening or sourdough baking, and Becca can answer general legal questions and Detroit Tigers trivia.